Writing is the Easy Part

Writing is the Easy Part

Editing

Editing is not my favorite part.  Slow, tedious, and an opportunity to really second guess what you wrote during that first round.  I’m wondering if I was drunk when I wrote parts of it (?!) and I’m grateful for the opportunity to fix that mess!

But then there are parts I know I got right because those chapters bring back vivid memories that make me feel like I’m right back in the thick of it.  I’m mentally tired after editing those chapters because it’s exhausting reliving what was a very stressful time in our lives. I think it’s clear in my day-to-day accounts how chaotic it was but I don’t really address in the book about the isolation we felt. We couldn’t adequately explain to anyone what was going on and no one really understood what we were dealing with.  I read an article recently referring to childhood mental illness as the “no casserole” illness that hit the nail on the head.  If your child has cancer or is born with a physical defect it’s automatic for others to sympathize and offer support (as they should!) but when your kiddo has a mental illness there seems to be more of a blame game and an unspoken rule not to address it.  In our case they would have had to bring casseroles for a very long time (ha!) since our drama went on for years until we found a manageable solution and adequate treatment for him.

For anyone struggling day-to-day with children experiencing symptoms of mental illness there is a great support group on Facebook Oppositional Defiant Disorder – O.D.D. that is a good reminder you are not alone.  I see daily posts on this page of people at the end of their rope ready to give up and just plain worn out from trying to manage the chaos.  It helps to read those posts on days when you can’t imagine anyone else is dealing with the same issues.

Ok, enough procrastinating on my part.  Back.To.Editing!  Thank goodness for the Creative PENN and Writers Digest  – both great resources as I slog through this new publishing adventure. Great insights and tools. Let me in the comments if you have a good resource for new authors, editing, or just surviving the publishing process.

 

 

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